When one thinks of abuse, you envision one person physically hurting another, like we hear all too often in domestic violence situations. Unfortunately, abuse comes in many forms: physical, financial, medical and emotional and all too often, the signs of abuse are overlooked or ignored. In general, we also tend to think of those abused in terms of “groups” – young or middle-aged Americans – however it has been reported that older women (67 percent) are far more likely than men (32 percent) to be victims of abuse and a little more than half (53 percent) of the abusers are female. Elder abuse and neglect is a reality for far too many of our seniors today. It is our responsibility as a society to recognize the warning signs, to intervene and to help educate others about how to report and reduce the incidence of this crime.
My mom is 93 and in failing health. She has fallen twice in the past, and recuperated after 100 days in a nursing home. I've lived in her house with her since 1995. Recently, I've had to enlist a live-in attendant to care for her. What are the rules governing house ownership if she has to go into a nursing home? I have her health-care proxy.
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Woodhaven Nursing Home
1360 Route 112
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
631-473-7100
Westhampton Care Center
78 Old Country Road
Westhampton, NY 11977
631-288-0101
The Hamptons Center For Rehabilitation A
64 County Road 39
Southampton, NY 11968
631-702-1000
Sunrise Manor Center For Nursing
1325 Brentwood Road
Bay Shore, NY 11706
631-665-4960
Suffolk Center For Rehabilitation And Nursing
25 Schoenfeld Blvd.
Patchogue, NY 11772
631-289-7700
St. Johnland Nursing Center
395 Sunken Meadow Road
Kings Park, NY 11754
631-269-5800
St. James Plaza Nursing Facility
273 Moriches Road
St. James, NY 11780
631-862-8990
St. James Healthcare Center
275 Moriches Road
St. James, NY 11780
631-862-8000


2010 Newsday Ask the Expert Nov 5